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St Mary of Egypt Refuge - Queensborough, Ontario, Canada

St Mary of Egypt Refuge
Saint Mary of Egypt Refuge

Mist at the rapids on the Black River
Summer morning on the Black River

The Saint Mary of Egypt Refuge has its own website
(www.stmarysrefuge.org/).

Please visit this website for more complete information on the Refuge.


Our Mission
Facility and Location
Location
How Can We Help You?
Activities
How Can You Help Us?
Our Story
Saint Mary of Egypt
Newsletter and Documentation

Board of Directors
Contact Us

Refuge beach on the Black River

Refuge beach on the Black River


Our Mission

Our mission is to give shelter, warmth and hope in face of poverty and need. Together, we create a home in the countryside where women, men, single parents, children, and any in need can experience safety, community, and belonging in the process of regaining strength and building healthy lives. Rooted in the prayer of the Christian church, we respect the beliefs and faith of all who come.

The purpose of this house is to be a "home away from home" for people who need a break: peace and quiet, shared meals and work, nature, fresh air, prayer space.The Refuge is about people who share this dream of communion with the poor, with Christ, and with one another, in the most concrete ways: doing dishes, sweeping floors, sharing tasks, meals, and life’s events.

The St Mary of Egypt Refuge is administered by a Board of Directors and is under the spiritual guidance of Archbishop Seraphim (Storheim) (Archbishop of Ottawa and Canada, Orthodox Church in America) and Archbishop Brendan O'Brien (Roman Catholic Archdiocese of Kingston).

We are a not-for-profit corporation and a registered charity in Canada.


Facility

  • Our Refuge was opened on July 19, 2004.
  • The new house was officially opened on May 5, 2007.
  • Our new chapel was inaugurated on October 23, 2009.
  • The house has:
    • Six bedrooms, three bathrooms and two gathering spaces.
    • Full kitchen facility.
    • A generous deck.
  • There is lots of room for tents, barbecues, playing, planting, just being.
  • Also a beach (swimming), with picnic area and a gazebo.
  • Hiking, canoeing, fishing.
  • 265 acres, rolling hills, woods and meadows - pine, spruce, cedar, birch, maple.
  • The Black River, with ponds and rapids, cuts through the land behind the refuge.
  • There is a chapel space in the house and in the woods.

St Mary of Egypt Refuge in winter
The refuge in winter


The new chapel October 2009


Location
  • 206 Barry Road, Queensborough, Ontario, Canada.
  • 20 minutes from Tweed or Madoc.
  • 1 hour from Peterborough
  • 1 1/2 hours from Kingston.
  • 2 1/2 hours from Toronto or Ottawa.
  • From Toronto:
    Highway 401 east to Belleville exit 544.
    Highway 37 north 44 kms. through Roslin, Tweed and Actinolite.
    Turn west (left) on Highway 7 for 2.7 kms.
    Turn north (right) on Queensborough Road for 9 kms to Queensborough.
    In Queensborough, turn north (right) on Barry Road for 1.1 kms to 206 Barry Road (on the right - St Mary of Egypt sign).
  • From Ottawa:
    Highway 7 west (towards Peterborough) to Actinolite.
    From the junction of Highway 37, continue west on Highway 7 for 2.7 kms.
    Turn north (right) on Queensborough Road for 9 kms to Queensborough.
    In Queensborough, turn north (right) on Barry Road for 1.1 kms to 206 Barry Road (on the right - St Mary of Egypt sign).

Click here for map (jpg).

Autumn on the Black River

Autumn on the Black River


How Can We Help You?

The Refuge has its own activities, and is also available for use by appropriate external organisations. Preference is given to charitable groups, Christian faith groups, people working with those in serious need, groups working with families. Priority is given to women, children and men who are in financial or other difficulty. Special rates for groups which serve the needy.

Hospitality Weekends

During the first full weekend of every month, individuals, couples or small groups are welcome to spend the weekend with us. We ask $100 per person (negotiable), and will ask you to share in the work and life of the Refuge; you may choose whether to spend free time alone or with others. Participation is by referral for those who have not yet been at the Refuge.

Focused Theme Retreats

Father/son
Mother/daughter
Singles
Couples
Families
Grieving Hearts
Overcoming Addiction
Children (girls, boys)
Youth
Art Therapy

Family and individual counselling available.

Children's Weekend

Children's Weekend


Retreats

Retreats are open to people from all walks of life; no one is excluded because of gender, economics, religion. We have worked with city after-school programs, church groups, single mothers, adults with developmental disabilities, and art therapy groups, among others. Emphasis is on welcoming those who come from a socially disadvantaged position, and for whom this kind of opportunity has mostly been denied.

St Maria of Paris Retreat, February 2009.

St Maria of Paris Retreat, February 2009.

The goal is to bring people to a deeper sense of connections with themselves and the environment, and possibly healing. For city people, it means time with nature, silence and simplicity. For rural people, it provides a resource for people who are isolated, and may not have access to social services. We provide a place for people to gather and to have for their difficulties a larger community of support, with a circle of care that may be harder to get in a rural setting.

How St Mary's Refuge Works

All are welcome, by referral if we have not already met you.
No one is refused space on the basis of finances.

Rates for external organisations for the use
of the refuge for groups of 4 to 12 persons:
Normal rate: $250 per day.
Reduced rates may be possible.
Minimum rate: $100 per day.
Groups provide their own food,
supplies and transportation.
Tax receipts given for donations.
Other arrangements are possible.

First Liturgy in the new chapel,
October 24, 2009, celebrated
by Fr John Jillions.


Activities.

Partial listing - see the Saint Mary of Egypt Refuge website (www.stmarysrefuge.org) for more up-to-date information on current activities.

Hospitality Weekends.

First full weekend of every month - see above.

March 25-27, 2011 : Spirituality of the Laity.

Retreat led by Dr Paul Ladouceur. We will reflect on the spirituality of the laity in Orthodoxy, drawing the writings of Paul Evdokimov, a modern theologian who focussed creatively on Christian life “in the world," as our main source. This retreat will provide a community environment, with shared meals, prayer in the Orthodox tradition, input by the retreat leader, time for reflection and discussion. At the Refuge, participants share in some household tasks (such as doing dishes), which is part of the community life during our time together. Accommodations include shared bedrooms and bathrooms. Cost: $150. Poster (pdf).

July 3-16, 2011 : Intensive Summer Course: Fundamentals of Orthodox Spirituality (1st to 14th Centuries).

Instructor: Dr. Paul Ladouceur. In the context of Orthodox/Eastern Christian Studies, a unique opportunity to study Orthodox spirituality in a rustic pastoral and prayerful setting. Live theology with your mind, heart, and body in a context of community living. This twelve-day residential course may be taken for credit or audited. Morning and evening prayer in the Orthodox tradition will be part of the learning experience. Poster (pdf). Additional information (pdf).

For additional information on activities at the St Mary of Egypt Refuge, visit the Refuge website.


How Can You Help Us?

Receive our Newsletter and become part of our Extended Family.
Donate your talents.
Check our needs list.
Pray for our work.

How to contribute financially:

One-time general donations.
One-time specific donations to assist with particular needs.
Pre-planned monthly contributions.
Estate donations.
Donate shares.

Our day-to-day expenses are funded by a small but dedicated donor base, which has been able to cover mortgage, taxes, and utilities. Grants have enabled us to rebuild the house, to build a chapel, and to make the place more child-friendly, with a dock for fishing and swimming, a screened gazebo, and a children’s playground. People who come on the retreats contribute what they can. Many in-kind donations have kept us able to provide high-quality programs.

Dinner time and...
Dinner time and...

marshmallow time!
marshmallow time!

 

How to contribute in other ways:

Join our email list.
Volunteer your time.

Skills needed include:

• carpentry
• cabinet-making
• cooking
• gardening
• landscaping
• volunteers to assist with retreats
• communications
• certified lifeguards
• certified babysitters
• cleaning and organizing
• come and spend time with us

Materials needed include:

• lumber for building
• handyman tools
• garden tools
• book cases
• children’s toys and books
• lamps
• end tables
• canoes
• life jackets (personal flotation devices)
• kayaks
• children’s kayaks
• arts and crafts supplies
• lawn furniture
• non-perishable food items
• paper products (toilet paper, tissues, paper towels)


Saint Mary of Egypt

Icon of St Mary of Egypt

Saint Mary of Egypt lived in the sixth century. A woman who ran away from her family and lived by seducing men, she was isolated, addicted and starving without even realizing it. One day she found healing through the presence of the Mother of God and the invitation to come into God’s Church. After living 50 years in the desert, she was met by a monk who wanted to know what holiness looked like: he was led to Mary. She has blessed this Refuge with her patronage; she teaches us that the Church is the place in which the broken and outcast are loved and honoured and become whole. "Blessed is God Who creates the great and wondrous, the glorious and marvellous without end " (from the Life of Mary of Egypt).

Read the full Life of Mary of Egypt by St Sophronius of Jerusalem (6th century).


Our Story

In 2001, having experienced first-hand some ways in which the life of poverty, Eucharist, and family have taken flesh both in Toronto and in other parts of the country and the world, Mary Marrocco received the blessing of Pascal Pingault to begin a new community life. Accompanied by others who encouraged her in her dream, she established a charitable organization which began a search for a generous, beautiful acreage which could become a refuge for those in need. After three years of intensive search and prayer, supported by donors both financial and spiritual, the property was found and purchased in July 2004: 260 acres of woods, trees, peace and beauty, with the Black River running through it. Situated about halfway between Toronto and Ottawa, just north of the Trans-Canada highway, it is meant to be an inn like that to which the Good Samaritan took his injured friend, a place of life and work, refuge and healing.

In November 2004, the small house on the property caught fire due to a natural accident, and burned to the ground in about 40 minutes. Fundraising ensued! As did time spent on the land, winter and summer. In October 2006, building of a new house began. In May 2007, the new house was officially opened.

Part of the experience of St Mary of Egypt is to see the connection between conservation and recycling, proper eating, exercise, fresh air, healthy foods, and the environment—and to see that these things all improve one’s personal health and life quality. Participants really work with the land; they have planted, weeded, raked and reaped. Our goal is to have a greenhouse to grow some of our own food and help educate children and adults about the organic growing of food. We also plan to keep our undeveloped land as a sanctuary, where children and adults can learn about local flora and fauna and the natural life cycle.

The pond on the Black River in winter

The pond on the Black River in winter

Healing comes through presence with God, one another, nature, and ourselves. We know we are not the Healer. We know the Healer is among us.

Time at the Refuge roots us more deeply in the rural community; helps us create a sense of community among rural youth and families; brings city people into a rural setting for a greater appreciation of nature, and how conservation, recycling, proper food and care for the planet can enhance their own lives and their contribution to the larger community; creates a sense of community among urban and rural youth; provides opportunity for people with physical and mental disability to find a sense of peace and greater connection with the environment; helps city youth discover their own spirituality through befriending nature.

Dining table

Dining table

The constant response to time spent at the Refuge is, especially for people coming from the city, that at first they are scared (of nature, of silence); but people begin to befriend the natural space around them, and then start to feel enjoyment and appreciation of what they are mostly denied during their ordinary lives, and wish they could stay longer. The beauty of the landscape allows for diverse and needy people to come together, and find enjoyment in one another. Some deep personal inner work has begun, and continues for those who become involved in the community.


Board of Directors

Bernadette Morishita-Miki, President
Janet Somerville, Vice President
Peter Marrocco, Secretary
Jo Tamming, Director
Mary Marrocco, Director
Adelaide MacDonald, Director
Lara Joannou, Director
Rev. Joe McDonald, Director.


St Silouane the Athonite Retreat, October 2009.


Newsletter and Documentation

To receive our newsletter, please write, email or telephone us with your name and address. To receive electronic mailings, please send your email address.

Articles by Mary Marrocco :

"Healing and Wholeness, Then and Now: St John the Merciful, St Mary of Egypt and Today’s Poor”
"Fire & wind: building a refuge that belongs to Christ"


Contact Us

Telephone: 416-629-8264.
E-mail:  info@stmarysrefuge.org.

Postal address:

St. Mary of Egypt Refuge
P.O. Box 75645,
607 Gerrard St. East
Toronto ON, M4M 3M5
Canada.


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